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As
a South Asian bride, it is your birthright to adorn yourself with
the most extravagant jewels on your wedding day. Anything less
would just be a waste of time, not to mention, take away some of
the most fun and girly moments of your wedding preparations!
Whether
you are Hindu, Christian, Sikh or Muslim, the bride often wears a
variety of accessories before and after marriage, making the
giving and wearing of jewelry one of the most complex and
time-honored processes of marriage. In fact ours is the only
culture to attach so much significance to our bridal jewelry.
Traditionally,
bridal jewelry entailed wearing cumbersome ornate gold items. But
today that standard has relaxed, meaning that brides have access
to a plethora of stunning pieces of different colors, shapes and
textures.
It
all looks pretty enough that brides enter upon the full works
without really knowing why. Before they know it, the idea of
parading about in every single beautiful piece, each weighing
almost a ton starts to daunt them.
So
to make it a little easier on yourself, it is well worth reading
up on why we wear them and what jeweled item goes where and how.
Thankfully for you, we have put it all together to ensure that
whether your bridal look is radiantly traditional or laced with a
more westernized theme, the jewelry you wear will proudly proclaim
it.
Head
Tikka
The tikka is normally
clipped onto the head's crown with a chain ending in the shape of
a delicate symbol that dangles neatly on the forehead. Hair is
usually styled with a middle parting to keep the tikka in place.
This item is one of the most attractive items of bridal jewelry
and is often seen as an extravagant version of the bindi. Today
they come in all sorts of designs that are embellished with a
variety of precious and semi precious stones.
Jhummar
The jhummar is a jeweled hair ornament that hangs over one
side of the head. Often worn in accompaniment to the tikka, the
pendant's design is often more elaborate and showy as it serves to
compliment the face. But be sure that its shape is similar to the
tikka to make the look more uniform.
Sahara
This is an elaborate hair accessory that takes part of its shape
from the tikka and the jhummar. In its most simplest of forms, the
sahara has a central piece running down the head's center with an
attachment on either side that runs along the front part of the
hairline and clipped into the sides. But today the sahara can have
many strands that run from the center, with beads hanging off
them.
Nathni
The nath is a nosepiece in the shape of a ring with a chain, which
normally hooks onto the ear. Traditionally a bride, who doesn't
have her nose pierced, would be obliged to have it done especially
for the wedding. Thankfully for those dead set against the pain of
piercing their noses times have changed where jewelers are
creating painless pieces, that can be conveniently clipped inside
the nostril - it's as easy as that!
Earrings
The earrings tend to be quite large, usually made of heavy
gold accompanied by an adornment of precious stones. Another
popular type of earring is the jhumka, which is bell-shaped and
made of solid gold. If you are sensitive when it comes to heavy
earrings sometimes they are attached to a string of pearls which
can be held behind the ear lobe to support the weight and allow
you to continue to look impressively elegant in manner and
extravagant in taste.
Hands and arms
Pancha
The pancha is a bracelet with up to five chains running down
the back of the hand ending in rings. These days, with convenience
playing a big factor, many brides opt to wear a pancha with just
one ring, as it looks more elegant as well as a little more
manageable.
Kangaan
Better known as bangles, the kangaan has become the most
desired item of Indian jewelry to make an impact among our western
contemporaries. These bangles come in a variety of colors mostly
made of glass and tend to be worn not just by the bride but also
by most of the women on auspicious occasions like a wedding. Many
modern bangles have been turned into bracelets, made of gold and
in some cases studded with precious stones. They are sold in sets
of 24 but the gold bracelets can be worn individually depending on
the desired look.
Rings
The ring is not solely an Indian tradition; it is the most
traditional and well-recognized form of wedding jewelry in any
culture. The continuous circle is a symbol of continuous and
never-ending love and fidelity. If your wedding is all about going
traditional, you might want to consider wearing an arsi, a lavish
thumb ring with a mirrored front. Suffice to say it is not one for
modern service, but it exudes exotic antiquity that would sway any
traditional brides.
Kalireh
The kalireh is one of the items with a deeper meaning. It consists
of a variety of bracelets, which have decorated coconut shapes and
metal pieces hanging off them. It is meant to symbolize the bride
traveling to the new marital home. The coconuts show that her
stomach will never be empty and the jewels symbolize that she will
always have money for herself.
Churha
The churha is a set of dozen bangles in both red and cream
given to the bride by her uncles. Tradition says that they should
be worn for as long as possible but the bride may remove them
three days after the wedding if desired.
Neck
Rani
Haar
As its name suggests, the rani haar is one of the most
majestic and stunning pieces of bridal jewelry. It comprises of a
long necklace with a pendant attached that tends to be heavy and
elaborate. Traditionally worn by queens and princesses to convey
their important status, it is now available to all brides who want
to look and feel like a dignified queen on their wedding day!
Mangalsutra
One of the most important items of bridal jewelry is the
mangalsutra or 'thread of goodwill' which can be seen as an
additional representative of the marriage union to the ring. It is
usually a chain of black beads strung onto a black thread along
with a gold pendant. Many women feel that there is a lot of
prestige attached to the offering of the mangalsutra as it
represents the love offered to them by their husbands. The black
beads are seen to protect against evil, and so due to this
significance, the mangalsutra remains the one piece that has not
been changed by modern trends.
Feet
Payaal
As the bride tends to be bare foot during the ceremony, the
most popular item of jewelry worn is the payaal, a delicate anklet
sometimes set with a variety of spherical balls that jingle with
every movement. However small rings can be worn around the toes
known as bichua. These are silver and joined to the payaal with a
chain.
Essential
jewelry advice
When you walk into a jewelry store, you are guaranteed to be
dazzled. But bear in mind that the pieces are strategically placed
on deep velvet to enhance their color and softly bath in light to
add a sparkle and gleam the piece simply does not possess.
To
get a good idea of any piece you buy, insist on handling all
jewelry and inspect them in natural light to see how they look
against your skin. It is always a good idea to take a swatch of
your wedding outfit to see how well they offset against them.
Your
jewelry should always complement your over all look. Just because
a family member has given you jewelry as a gift if it does not
match your outfit or make-up - think twice before you wear them.
Needless to say that you have to be politically correct too.
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