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Rabindranath
Tagore(1861— 1941), was the first non- White to receive
Nobel prize (1913) for Literature. The event of course
caused some furor at the time. The New York Times in its
prodigious generosity consoled its readers by alluding to
the fact that after all Tagore was of Aryan Stock. It was
first published in 1913 as a collection of prose
translations made by the author from the original Bengali
(a language of India) Poems. Evidence does indicate that
the poet W.B. Yeats had a hand in editing and having it
published!
Cithipatra,
Vol. I, Letter No.16, Shelidah, June 1898.
I found
your letter when I got back from Dhaka. I’ll go briefly
to Kaligram to tie up some business, and then come to
Kolkata to make all necessary arrangements. But please,
don’t worry yourself needlessly. Try to bear every
occurrence with a calm, peaceful, serene mind. This is
what I try to do all the time in the way I lead my own
life. I’m not always successful, but if you can keep
calm, then perhaps - strengthened by our mutual efforts -
I also may achieve peace and happiness of mind. Of course
you are younger than I am, and your experiences have been
much more limited, and your nature is in some respects
much more patient, much more easily controlled than mine.
Therefore you have less need than I to keep your mind free
of emotional disturbance.
But in
everyone’s life major crises occur, in which the utmost
patience and self-control are required. We then realize
how silly we are to complain of trivial, daily annoyances,
petty aches and pains. I shall love, and I shall do my
best, and I shall do my duty by others cheerfully - if we
follow this principle, we can cope with anything. Life
does not last long, its pleasures and travails are also
constantly changing. Wounds, setbacks, deception - it’s
hard to bear them lightly; but if we don’t, the burden
of life gradually becomes insufferable, and it becomes
impossible to fix one’s mind on any goal or ideal. If we
fail, if we live in dissatisfaction and tension day after
day, in constant conflict with our circumstance, then our
lives become completely futile.
Great calm,
generous detachment, selfless love, disinterested effort:
these are what make for success in life. If you can find
peace in yourself and can spread comfort around you, you
will be happier than an empress. Bhai Chuti, if you go on
fretting over little things you will do harm to yourself.
Most of our troubles are self-imposed. Do not be cross at
me for lecturing you pompously like this. You do not know
the intense concern with which I am saying these things.
I feel such deepening of my love and respect for you, such
a strengthening of the sympathy that ties me to you, that
the pure calm and contentment that I wish for you means
more than anything else in the world: compared to it,
life’s daily troubles and disappointments are nothing.
These days I look at things with a new kind of longing. A
woman when young can be unsettled and deluded by love, but
even from your experience you perhaps know that at a
maturer age, admist the extraordinary ups and downs of
life, a steadier, quieter, deeper, more real and
controlled love develops.
As her
family grows, the outside world recedes. So in one respect
her isolation grows - ties of intimacy seal off the
married couple from the world around them. Our souls are
never more beautiful than when we can draw close and look
at each other face to face: real love begins then. There
is no infatuation any more, there is no need to see each
other as gods any more, unions and partings do not create
storms of feeling any more - but near or far, in security
or in danger, in poverty or wealth, the pure and joyous
light of unqualified trust shines all around. I know you
have suffered much because of me, but I also know that
because you have suffered on my account you will one day
know a greater, fuller joy. Forgiveness in love and
sharing of troubles are true happiness; the satisfactions
of personal ambition is not happiness. These days my sole
desire is that our lives should be simple and
straightforward, that all around us there should be peace
and cheerfulness, that our way of life should be
unostentatious and full of bounty, that our needs should
be small and our aims high and our efforts unselfish and
our work for others more important than our work for
ourselves. And even if our children gradually fall away
from the example we have set them, I hope that we may,
till the end, live our lives beautifully in mutual
compassion and total selfless, unambitious trust. This is
why I have become so eager to take you all away from
Kolkata’s stony temple of materialism, and bring you to
a far and secluded village.
In Kolkata
there is no opportunity to forget profit and loss, friend
and foe: one is so constantly troubled by trifling matters
that in the end all the finer purposes of life are
shattered into fragments. Here one is content with little,
and does not mistake falsehood for truth. Here it is not
hard to ‘accept with equanimity whatever may come, happy
or sad, pleasant or unpleasant. |