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Yes, we are talking about the
marriage of Abhishek Bachchan and Aishwarya Rai, both
celebrities in their own rights. On one hand, we have
Abhishek, a star and a heartthrob for million of Indians
and the darling son of the first couple of Bollywood (Amitabh
and Jaya Bachchan). On the other, we have Aishwarya, a
former Miss World and a leading heroine in Indian and
Hollywood films. The union could be no less than a merger
fantasy and now it is reality.
However, the road to this
point was not rosy as it would have been. Scores of
newsprint has been spent describing the astrological
problems that Aishwarya had by virtue of being a "Manglik"
and the manner in which she (along with the Bachchans)
visited temples all over the country to perform 'yagnas'
and 'pujas' to negate the ill-effect. It has even been
reported that Aishwarya had to undergo a symbolic marriage
with a tree just for this sake.
As time drew near the date
of marriage, April 20, the media frenzy hit an all time
high. All over, expectations began to rise and there was a
lot of speculation about the process of marriage,
modalities, invitees, and even the wedding dress.
Certainly, if the marriage is between the most eligible
bachelor of Bollywood and the blue-eyed beauty queen,
there has to be a lot of interest. But, the way this
marriage generated coverage is probably unprecedented in
the national context.
A few days before the
actual event, news channels set up their camps near the
venue, which happened to be Amitabh's two bungalows, Jalsa
and Prateeksha. The latter was the site of wedding, where
the actual marriage ceremony took place. This was done as
Aishwarya resides in an apartment La Mere, which might not
be the most suitable venue to accommodate the VVIP list of
guests. But, that did not deter media to hound the
apartment as well. Such was the importance of this event
to the media that they tried to interview almost every
person coming out of the three different places, Jalsa,
Prateeksha and La Mere.
The families of Bachchans
and Rai exercised extreme caution regarding access to the
event by the press and other unauthorized persons. The
Bachchans ensured that by no means could the media get a
peek at the marriage venues, its decoration, and other
preparations.
The mega-marriage finally
began on the April 18 with the "Sangeet"
ceremony at Jalsa. The invitee list included a who's who
list of popular Indians. It included Ram Gopal Verma,
Suniel Shetty, Ajay Devgan and Kajol, Sanjay Dutt, Karan
Johar, Rishi Kapoor, Aman Ali and Ayan Ali Bangash,
Udhbhab Thakre, and Preeti Zinta. Family friends included
Amar Singh, Anil Ambani, Anupam Kher, Goldie Behl, and
Sonali Bendre. It was reported that the nightlong program
of dance and music was choreographed by Karan Johar and
all the participants were made to dance. The bride and the
groom delivered an encore of their famous "Kajra
Re" number, and mother, Jaya Bachchan, ignited the
show by dancing to the tunes of sensuous "Biri jalai
le". Aishwarya and other guests left Jalsa at around
4am all the while keeping weary-eyed media people again at
bay.
The next day was the "Mehendi:" ceremony, which
took place at Ash's maternal home, La Mere. It was an
entirely cozy function organized by the Rai family. The
compound had a festive atmosphere with lights and music
everywhere. The Bachchans went to the place with mehendi
from Rajasthan, and the word is that mother-in-law Jaya
Bachchan herself applied the colors to Aishwarya's hands.
The day of the marriage was
truly an event to remember. All through the night, Indians
from Kashmir to Kanyakumari, Dwarka to Dispur could only
see the gates of the Bachchans' bungalows (as the media
could not see anything beyond that) and were hearing
running commentary of what was probably going on inside.
It was indeed a unique situation, where all information
procured was 'source based' as no one knew exactly what
happened inside.
It was around 5.30 am in
the morning that priests from Varanasi and Jabbalpur
conducted rituals at Jalsa. Until noon, one could see a
flurry of activities at both bungalows related to the
organisation of the gala event. The media tried to capture
every single second of the preparation to pass it to their
viewers. One could see Amar Singh and Amitabh Bachchan
coming in and out of the bungalow while supervising the
different arrangements.
The beautiful bride
appeared at Prateeksha at 1:30 pm with a convoy of seven
to eight cars. Aishwarya, dressed in a red Kanjeevaram
saree, entered the bungalow in a silver Mercedes car
ornated with pink and white flowers, and accompanied by
her mother Brinda Rai.
The guests started to pour
in by the evening. The main congregation of guests was at
the Bachchan residence at Jalsa. Friends included Riteish
Deshmukh, Yash Chopra with family, Karan Johar with
family, Rakeysh Mehra, Amar Singh, Ajitabh Bachchan,
Suneil Shetty and Sanjay Dutt. The Baraatis began to move
towards the place of marriage, Prateeksha, boarding five
Volvo buses. Abhishek came to the bus, riding on a white
horse, and he was dressed in an Abu Jani-Sandeep Khosla
designed Sherwani decorated with gold threads. Visibly
elated Abhishek was seen to wave towards the media and his
fans who gathered in thousands in front of the house. The
entourage of buses then made its trip to the Prateeksha
with the groom Abhishek and of course, Amitabh.
At the gates of Prateeksha,
one could see an ecstatic Abhishek jumping from the bus
and dancing away to a waiting horse. In fact, the groom to
be was so happy that he continued to dance while sitting
on the horse as he rode inside the marriage venue. The
entire activity was closely supervised by Amitabhj
Bachchan, who played the role of the Father of the Groom
to the core. Abhishek's mother Jaya Bachchan and sister
Sweta Nanda were also seen joining the fun and frolic that
accompanied.
The marriage was finally solemnized in the late evening
between 6 to 7pm. It has been heard that the marriage was
conducted through a series of North Indian, South Indian
and Bengali rituals, as the bride is South Indian, the
groom from North India, and the Groom's mother (Jaya) from
Bengal.
After the marriage, the
reception took place where among others, one could find
Sachin Tendulkar, Mulayam Singh Yadav, Bal Thakre,
Saharashree Subrata Ray and a host of other celebrities.
The approximate number of invitees was around 250-300, and
there were 800 security personnel, who tried to manage the
event. However, they could hardly do a decent job as
thousands of curious onlookers literally mobbed the area.
Some came from as far as Mangalore and Hyderabad.
At the reception, choreographer Shiamak Davar performed a
special dance program while the catering was carried out
by the Taj Mahal Palace Hotel. The platter was
predominantly Indian vegetarian cuisine apart from
Russian, Thai and Mexican dishes. After the wedding, the
next day was the "Bidaai" of Aishwarya.
However, as good things
have a dark side, this marriage of the year was not devoid
of controversy. The media attention it generated had
really caused many raised eyebrows, and put the Bachchans
invitation practices were put on display. This marriage
was said to be such an event, and many pretended that they
were invited, when they actually were not. Quite
surprisingly, the invitee list did not include some very
obvious names from the Bollywood film industry that gave
Amitabh Bachchan his iconic stature.
Discontentment among
several producers, directors, actors and actresses grew
when they were reportedly told that the invitee list was
allegedly monitored by Amitabh's friend, politician Amar
Singh, and was opportunistically made. Many close friends
of the senior and junior couple were notably left out.
To make matters worse,
treatment of security personnel towards the media and the
on-lookers was violent at times. The treatment was so
violent that later Amitabh Bachchan himself had to
apologize for incidents. And then, there was the suicide
attempt, where an unknown starlet named Jahnavi Kapoor
made an attempt to take her life claiming to be Abhishek's
wedded wife. Though the incident could not gather much
momentum, yet left a sour taste on the otherwise happy
event. Later, rumors were also rife about Amitabhj having
sold the media rights of the marriage to British
television and hence debarred the national media from
gaining any access.
After the wedding, and
after taking the blessings of Lord Balaji Tirupati, the
newly wed couple of Abhishek and Aishwarya Bachchan left
for the French Riviera for their honeymoon. Let's hope
that the duo now enjoys a long and happily married life,
while the media takes a break from their grueling work in
covering this momentous event!
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