Diwali, the festival of joy,
light, and happiness is celebrated by people of all ages and
is the one holiday where young and old alike enjoy the
feeling of togetherness, glamour, and endless enthusiasm for
life, which is visible and felt in all corners of the world
at this time.
Diwali is celebrated by
Hindus in India and all around the world and usually falls
in October or November. It is the Hindu New Year and is
often a three to five affair, which culminates on Diwali
Day.
It is a real festive time, a
truly exciting and colorful holiday. Homes are cleaned to
welcome in the New Year. Windows are opened so that the
Hindu goddess of wealth, Lakshmi, can enter freely. It is
believed that she cannot enter a house that is not lit up,
so every household burns special Diwali clay lamps (diyas)
to light the way for the goddess, thus the reason why the
holiday is also known as the Festival of Lights.
While this annual event has
more implications for elders and grown ups, many of whom see
this as a festival of wealth and prosperity, it does have a
very special significance for children. As it is, for most
festivals that come their way, children celebrate in their
own manner. Nothing is more interesting to them than the
festivals of Holi and Diwali.
As is appropriate, schools
remain closed for at least one week during this time, which
gives kids enough opportunity to involve themselves with
various dimensions of the occasion. In fact, the preparation
commences some time prior to Diwali. The festival marks the
beginning of the Hindu New Year and hence, there is a custom
of wearing new dresses among the young and the old. Children
are seen to throng the various shopping plazas and markets
with their parents, choosing colorful attires, shoes, and
other accessories. That in itself is an exciting activity
for young ones. Another important aspect of Diwali is the
firecracker. Probably the most important part of Diwali,
kids seem to plan this necessary purchase long in advance,
often with their brothers, sisters, and friends.
On the day of Diwali, a lot
of programs take place, during which kids participate
wholeheartedly. People visit their relatives and friends to
wish them well on the occasion of Diwali and exchange gifts.
Sweets are an indispensable part of Diwali celebration.
Feasts are arranged and gaily-dressed men, women, and
children go to temples and fairs and visit friends and
relatives. Diwali Melas are held all over India, and parties
are held in many homes. Everybody adorns new and bright
clothes, and women, especially, get dressed in the best of
ornaments. Homes are thoroughly cleaned, rangolis are
created, and windows are opened to welcome Lakshmi, goddess
of wealth. Decorated Diyas, candles, and lamps are lit as a
greeting to Lakshmi. Thousands of lamps are lit inside and
outside every home on this wonderful day.
Young boys and girls take an
active role in decorating their houses as well as in
lighting up the decorative lamps. They can be seen running
around with diyas and lamps from here and there. Wearing new
clothes, they enjoy themselves by burning the firecrackers.
Often, with their parents, or group of friends, little kids
are seen in the streets as they watch illuminating
fireworks, noisy crackers, and sky-penetrating rockets in
ecstasy and wonder.
Nights are fun-filled too,
with relatives or friends visiting their houses, usually
culminating with a sumptuous Diwali spread. This is a time
of where sweets are generously exchanged with neighbors and
friends. Puffed rice and sugar candy are among the
favorites. Kids often get token gifts from their elders with
blessings for the occasion.
As a whole, Diwali is a
festival as significant, as important, and as fun-filled for
elders as it is for the younger generation. It goes without
saying that children eagerly await the arrival of this
festival of light with tremendous fervor and enthusiasm as
it gives them a highly deserved break from the monotonous
routine of life and allows them to be themselves.
Diwali can be compared with
the Christmas. Just as the latter celebrates the birth of
Jesus Christ with extreme passion and enthusiasm, the Hindus
treat Diwali as a mark of the victory of the Good and defeat
of the evil in the same spirit.
It could, hence, be a
tempting proposition to compare one of the practices of
Christmas with that of Diwali. It is about exchanging gifts.
In Christmas, we often see that people exchange gifts in the
form of dresses, household items and such other utility
products with their relatives, friends and other near and
dear ones. However, in the Diwali, exchange of gifts is
mostly restricted to sweets and other dry fruits among the
Hindus. Children are sometimes gifted dresses and other
article, but it is not a regular practice, as yet.
Wouldn't it be a nice gesture
if Hindus, could engage in similar practices of providing
their close ones with gifts and presents? Most important, is
the process of gifting children. It is indeed a very
endearing custom whereby love, affection, care, and concern
for each other are beautifully reflected.
No doubt, festivals like
Diwali are extremely favorite and popular among children,
and if they now begin to get lots of gifts from their elders
and relatives, they will really feel happy and pampered. The
glitter and shine in the eyes of an innocent child is the
most precious thing in this world. |