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The Ecstasy of a Destination Wedding Paru and Rishi
All girls dream of being swept off their feet and being whisked away to a magical place where they will be married, and then live happily forever. Paru Mehta too had the same dream, one where she knew exactly wherer her wedding destination would be very early on in life. It was on a holiday to Puerto Rico when she was a little girl that she decided that this was the place of her dreams. Now a 24-year-old radiology resident at Shands Hospital, Paru is seeing her dreams come to life.
A grand wedding locale is only half the dream. Without a prince charming, a wedding really has no meaning at all. Paru was lucky to find her prince while studying in Miami. Rishi Modh and Paru knew each other for six years before they decided to take the plunge.
Six long years after they had grown in love, Rishi took Paru to the Biscayne Bay on the pretext of meeting friends. Then, on an isolated sailboat which was readied for the occasion, he proposed. With all arrangements including the engagement ring readied to perfection, there was no way Paru could refuse.
With just one short year in between the propsal and wedding date, much was to be done. Family friend Janardhan Dabolkar proved to be a god-send, taking personal care of all arrangements himself. While there was a lot of work that had to be done at home, there was a consultant appointed in Puerto Rico to handle all arrangements there. With the assistance of her parents and sister, Paru managed to have everything coordinated well in advance.
The wedding invitations were taken care of by Rishi’s mother, who painstakingly selected them while in India. Fashioned as scrolls, the invites, which carefully described all the events and corresponding details, made for an exquisite keepsake.
The celebrations began long before the couple and their guests even reached Puerto Rico. Given the number of guests flying in, a majority of the seats on a single plane were blocked for the wedding party. The interiors of the plane were decorated, and there was special music playing on the flight to get friends and family in the mood.
The wedding and several additional functions were all held at the El Conquistador Resort in Puerto Rico. With nearly 450 guests in attendance, it was a grand affair. For mehndi night, an Indian village was recreated, complete with tiny hanging lanterns and cotton drapes. Pillars decorated in purple and gold reflected the lighting beautifully, and the water matched the rhythm of the music. A music group, flown in from India, provided live entertainment with songs for young and old alike.
The sangeet and raas garba followed, and then finally came the day of the wedding. It was held in the afternoon against a backdrop of large white pillars. Decorations were minimal so as to bring out the scenic beauty provided by the landscape. Flower girls first entered carrying a basket of flowers. They wore blue dresses that had been hand-picked by Rishi’s mother when in India. Paru then followed, who was carried down the aisle and to the wedding area.
For the wedding and all other functions, Paru selected her ensembles from a leading store in Mumbai. She purchased her jewelry from stores in Mumbai and Dubai. For the ceremony, Paru wore a dazzling outfit in red and cream. She used minimal make up since it was a day wedding, and chose to accentuate her eyes and lips. Her hair was held up high in a bun.
After the wedding ceremony, Rishi and Paru, now officially man and wife, were driven away in an elegant horse carriage. They then began getting ready for the reception. Two ice sculptures carved as dolphins welcomed guests at the entrance. The main color theme of the reception was blue and gold, and it was apparent everywhere. With tables all around the venue, there was a special love seat made ready on the stage for the newlyweds. The tables had assignments made in the shape of butterflies with the guest’s name on it.Speeches were made by the fathers of the bride and groom, who not only spoke of the nostalgic past, but also gave priceless advice for the future of the children. Toasts were then proposed. The wedding cake, which was specially made to be elaborate, was in the shape of a horse and carriage. The two foot tall cake had several layers, and looked as good as it tasted.
The DJ kept everyone dancing throughout the night. Combined with a local group of Latin musicians and dancers, there was much to forward to. The highlight was a performance which featured the grandparents, parents and siblings. It was followed by the bride and groom. Paru sang the first half of a song, and then danced to the rest with her husband. The floor was then thrown open to everyone. While the reception was on in full swing, special silver bowls with hand written notes from the bride and groom were placed in guest rooms as favors.
The food had to be as lavish as the wedding itself. Mr. Dabolkar personally attended to every meal, ensuring that no two meals had the same spread.
Although Paru did enjoy a spectacular wedding, she is practical and has very sound advice to give. She suggests that brides do not give the wedding too much importance, since it will be over in a matter of days. Instead, she recommends that they focus on the marriage which will last for life.
The Ecstasy of a Destination Wedding Paru and Rishi
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Wed At Last….
Friends since high school, Amit and Reema planned for a two week vacation in Peru to celebrate their 10-year dating anniversary. A day before the flight was scheduled, Amit asked Reema to meet him. This get-together was organized in Bridgewater by Amit’s mother, and the last minute call bothered Reema quite a bit as she wasn’t yet done with her packing.Amit picked her up and drove to Bridgewater. On the way, he got a call that the meeting was re-scheduled. As the duo passed by their favorite ice cream jaunt, Reema requested they stop as she wanted a scoop of chocolate. She was enjoying ice cream when Amit apologized for the day and began reading a note, which was meant for their anniversary. It turned out to be a “proposal.” With a ring in his hands, Amit went down on one knee and said, “I knew the way to make you say YES was by feeding you your favorite sundae.” Reema blushed.
The destination wedding took place in Aruba. Reema choose red and turquoise as the wedding colors. White tents and the mandap were adorned with red and turquoise draping. Amita Patel from Vulcal Boutique designed an exclusive lengha for the bride. Special anarkalis were designed for the flower girls.
.On the eve of the special day, a beach fun party offered the perfect ambience for the guests to relax and mingle with each other. Ashok Hirdaramani, an Indian guitarist from Aruba, set the mood for the evening with a perfect mix of Indian, Caribbean and American music.
Décor for the wedding was done by Fernando. White lounge sofas were adorned with beautiful cushions, back-lit fabric columns, tikki torches, pyramids with copper balls at the entrance and striking lanterns on the cocktail tables, along with hookahs, made the event all the more enjoyable.
CEREMONY
Wedding ceremony was held on the beach. Two white tents with fabric drapings were arranged for guests along with white wooden folding chairs. The mandap was a bamboo structure covered in white drapings.The ceremony was a blend of Gujarati and Sindhi traditions. The bride was escorted down the aisle by her maternal uncles, while the groom and the bharat arrived on a boat. The pheras were held in line with all Hindu traditions. Sindhi traditions, including the salt signifying the blending of the bride into the family, were also observed religiously. The couple left the site on a boat.
RECEPTION
Rare flowers from Aruba that adorned the venue stole the show. A modern and classy centerpiece by Fernando added to the glitzy décor. Another special feature was the lighting. From under tables, columns, and canopy beds to cocktail tables, the dance floor, tikki torches and string lights, the venue was quite elegantly illuminated.The regal dulce de leche wedding cake had a magenta ribbon to match the magenta and aqua theme. Mojitos, a Latin American drink made with rum, fresh lime and mint leaves, was the special drink of the evening. The DJ played Steelpan and Caribbean music. Loud and invigorating bhangra numbers got guests rocking on the dance floor. Guests in particular enjoyed the reggaetone, which was played through to the end of the evening.
Photos Courtesy:
Fine Art Productions
www.FineArtProductions.netVendorsWedding Venue
The Westin Resort & Casino
www.westinaruba.com297-526-4450 Manadp Decorator
Mosaic-Aruba
mosaic@setarnet.awWedding Dress, Wedding Jewelry
Vulcal Boutique
www.vulcal.com407-718-4737 Hair/Makeup
Susmita Patel
www.studiosush.com973-901-3316 Invitations
Patel Printing Plus Corp
www.patelprintingplus.com908-964-6422 Catering
Tandoor the Indian Grill House
tandoor@setarnet.aw297-586-0944 Music dj
Elite productions-Aruba
mdenz@elite-productions.net297-583-9641 Studio
Studio Sush
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Cupid Dida
All that was common between Meena Putatunda, an Implementation Consultant in Healthcare IT and Vick Mukherjee, a Software Development Lead, was a family friend; a grandmother rather, who was no less than a god-sent messenger. She connected two families and what followed was a celebration of life.Meena and Vick began talking on phone. Soon the conversations were longer and better. For Meena, talking to Vick was like talking to her best friend. Then after a couple of weeks, Vick visited Meena and her family over a weekend. The purpose was to sweep them all off their feet – and so he did. After making a strong impression on her parents, Vick invited Meena and her family to spend a day at his beach house in New Jersey.
Meena and her family reached his beach house around midnight. Vick asked Meena to go for a walk on the beach. It was a beautiful romantic night. The moon was almost full, the breeze was calm, and there wasn’t a soul around. Words took a back seat as there was a silent communication happening between the two.
.Upon returning to the beach house, Vick took her to the terrace. There she found a blanket adorned with roses and a bottle of champagne. Vick took out a ring from his pocket and kneeled in front of Meena. “I couldn’t imagine life with anyone else,” and he proposed to her. The speechless beauty, standing on the terrace of the beach house, in that romantic midnight hour, could only squeak in assertion. Vick’s sister
Trisha and Meena’s brother Vijay – who had jointly planned this surprise proposal – appeared soon after. The good news spread and soon good wishes began pouring in from all corners of the world. “At the time of the proposal, we had known each other for less than a month. But when you know, you know!” exclaimed Meena.In Meena’s words, “At the time of the proposal, we had known each other for less than a month. But when you know, you know!”The two had their Ashirbad (blessing ceremony) in October 2009. That left plenty of time to plan a wedding in May 2010 in Nashville, Tennessee, where Meena’s family lived. A wedding coordinator was hired to help make the wedding a truly special event. To ensure a perfect traditional Bengali wedding, the couple’s parents, many local aunties, and some other relatives assisted and truly put their heart and soul into wedding preparations.
The sangeet evening was organized at the Hutton Hotel. A relatively new hotel, t
he Hutton, with a modern, vibrant vibe, was the perfect place for a music and dance celebration. Special mehndi artists were called on for the sangeet ceremony. Many family members and friends of the couple performed a wide variety of acts including dancing, singing, poetry reading, and even a comedy act.The couple’s parents always dreamt of their children marrying in a temple. The obvious choice for the wedding ceremony was the Sri Ganesha Temple, one of the most beautiful temples in southeastern U.S. Sharing her favorite moments of the ceremony, Meena says, “Being carried on the open doli by my brothers and family friends was a once in a lifetime experience. Wish the time had frozen at that very moment.” Vick, riding a white horse to the temple, with friends and relatives dancing around, shared a similar feeling. The feeling was royal and majestic, he said.
The wedding reception was held at the Loews Vanderbilt Hotel. There could not have been a better venue to end the beginning of these festivities. The couple celebrated their wedding once again at another reception was held close to Vick’s home at the Birchwood Manor in Whippany, New Jersey.
After her grand wedding experience, Meena offers couples tying the knot a beautiful piece of advice: “Always keep smiling regardless of what happens! There will be lots of people and lots of cameras. And you don’t want to be caught not smiling.”
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The Royal Wedding
The Wedding
The world was set ablaze by the grandeur of royal wedding as Prince William and his newly titled bride sealed the ceremony with a kiss on the balcony of Buckingham Palace. Over a million people moved down to London on this occasion and the invitee list included 1,900 people. Around 650 people were invited to the lunchtime reception at Buckingham Palace given by the Queen herself and 300 people to the dinner at Buckingham Palace given by the Prince of Wales, which was followed by singing and dancing.The occasion was the annual order of the garter ceremony where the duchess o
f Cambridge, decked in a dove grey long coat and matching fascinator arrived in a burgundy Rolls Royce, charming the crowd with all smiles on her face. Camilla stretched a guiding hand to her while doing so. The two women posed as to be photographed by the media. Prince William, smiling himself, marched down the hill from Windsor castle with his father, Prince Charles at his side.The Royal wedding between Prince William, son of heir to the British throne and his long time girlfriend Kate Middleton took place on April 29th at Westminster Abbey at 11 A.M. A wedding, seemingly a made-for television one, was cheered and applauded by the audience present. People could find likeness of the wedding with that of Elizabeth’s in the year 1947, the same year Britain lost a inestimable jewel from its crown, India as their colony.
Bridal Attire
The wedding floated by without a hitch. The bride wore a strapless corset fashioned in Victorian manner, and the dress was virginal white even though she had been living with the groom for some time. William graced the occasion by wearing a red military uniform with gold braid. The couple looked comfortably happy and content while kissing, the moment brought back the picture of Charles kissing his newly wedded br
ide Diana, some 30 years ago. Indian High Commissioner Nalin Surie and several people of Indian origin solicited their gracious presence. The media played a pivotal part in broadcasting the event to the world as their cameras caught every moment of it.their gracious presence. The media played a pivotal part in broadcasting the event to the world as their cameras caught every moment of it.
Happy Future
The wedding floated by without a hitch. The bride wore a strapless corset fashioned in Victorian manner, and the dress was virginal white even though she had been living with the groom for some time. William graced the occasion by wearing a red military uniform with gold braid. The couple looked comfortably happy and content while kissing, the moment brought back the picture of Charles kissing his newly wedded bride Diana, some 30 years ago. Indian High Commissioner Nalin Surie and several people of Indian origin solicited their gracious presence. The media played a pivotal part in broadcasting the event to the world as their cameras caught every moment of it. The royal wedding inspired creative headwear all around, and people with flamboyant feathered headpieces and traditional top hats were seen. William and Catherine cut a gigantic cake after the wedding. The confectionery masterpiece covered in cream and white icing and decorated with up to 900 delicate sugar-paste flowers was centre-stage at the Buckingham Palace reception. Champagne and snacks were served in plenty. As soon as the ceremony ended, people rejoiced and celebrated to their heart’s content. They took to the streets with smiling faces and placards that read “long live the wedding.”
Luxury was at its highest peak for the Royal family, and though recession looms in Europe, the air of entertainment, luxury and celebration created a short-lived escape from the harsh realities of wages and jobs cutbacks. All is well in the end and without a slight hint of doubt, one can emphatically state the wedding was a huge success.
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Best Friends = Love For Life
Jigar and Sonika share a beautiful friendship, one that binds them together forever. A key to a good relationship is laughing together and sharing the joys in life, which is exactly how Jigar and Sonika found their relationshiop unfolding into a tremendous love life. Sonika Khushwala, 26, a physical therapist and Jigar Tataria, 29, an anaesthesiologist, first met over lunch at their friend’s place, who were coincidentally, family friends of Jigar’s and Sonika’s parents neighbors. The couple was also surprised to learn that both of them worked at the same hospital in downtown Atlanta. As time went on, the two would often grab dinner after work, play tennis, or take a stroll in the park to spend time with each other. Little did they know that the need to see each other would progress to an everyday occurrence.Jigar proposed to Sonika exactly nine months from the day they met. For some, that
might be considered too short a period to judge someone’s character, but Sonika had no doubt that Jigar was the person with whom she wanted to spend her life. Jigar enamored his love with red roses as Sonika came out brushing from the bathroom. Sonika could see he was visibly sweating, so without any further delay she agreed to his proposal gleefully. Though he always wanted to propose her in the park where they shared many memorable moments, but Jigar’s demanding work schedule proved challenging. In the end, the two were happily engaged and soon planning a beautiful wedding.As soon as Sonika said yes, the planning began for a wedding one year away. Jigar and Sonika planned their dream wedding with the support of many friends and relatives, and in the end, the result was fruitful. It was a dream wedding where no consultant would participate, and it was only made so by those with heart.
The wedding events took place in Atlanta where Sonika’s family lived. Sonika’s lifelong wish was to have an outdoor marriage ceremony, and the Sheraton Hotel Atlanta offered just that. The sangeet/garba and reception took place in the hotel’s two ballrooms, and out of town guests were able to find accommodations in the same place.
The theme for the sangeet was traditional ethnic hues. Guests entered the ballroom through a colorful passageway. Tables were adorned with Moroccan corners and lanterns. The stage was enhanced with brightly colored panels and a traditional Indian swing in the center, and the dance floor was decorated with umbrellas, being the central theme of the ceremony, which canvassed the Raas between Krishna and Radha.
The ceremony was held in the Emory conference center garden on a spring Georgia day. The courtyard had a rock waterfall and seasonal flowers in full bloom, which provided a calm ambience for the wedding. Reds, whites and golds, dominant in traditional Indian weddings, prevailed and the mandap was adorned with red rose petals while the aisle was bordered with white rose petals. It was the perfect backdrop for an Indian wedding in spring with the Sun as a chief guest.
Ceremony program booklets were with a Shakespearean quote. DJ Bally played “Here Comes the Sun” by the Beatles as Sonika entered, who looked as dazzling as the Sun. Sonika always wanted the sound of the Beatles present for here wedding due to her love of the band.
The reception was held in the Capitol ballroom at the Sheraton Atlanta, which provided an atmosphere pleasing to all. Large crystal chandeliers, mahogany wood panels, white blue up lighting tickled everyone’s memories with images of Indian villages from the past. The theme was peacock and the colors were chosen very brilliantly to befit the theme well. Chairs were adorned with peacock feathers, and crystal garlands enhanced the mandap.People went wild over the music especially when DJ Bally played “Sing sing sing with a swing” and Michael Buble’s “Everything” to which the bride and groom danced. The father/daughter dance was to the popular song “You are my sunshine,” and the mother/son dance song was to “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong. The remainder of the reception music was a healthy mix of Hindi, Bhangra and pop hits to which guests eagerly danced all night. With guests enjoying to the last minute, Jigar and Sonika truly made their dream wedding a success.
Photography:
The Decisive Moment Photography
www.thedecisivemoment.comVendorsWedding Venue
the Emory Conference Center Hotel
www.emoryconferencecenter.com404-712-6007 RECEPTION Venue
The Sheraton Hotel Downtown
www.sheratonatlantahotel.com404-614-8155 Videographer
Vinod Photography & Videography
www.photographybyvinod.com770-449-5155 officiant
Dr. Pandit Ravindra Dave
ravidave12@yahoo.com770-840-0390 Decorator/FLOWERS
Natasha Décor
www.natashadecor.com770-880-5555 Wedding Dress
Season’s Boutique
www.seasonsindia.com+91-22-61459999 Wedding rings
The Shane Company
www.shaneco.com866-467-4263 catering
Café Bombay
www.cafebombayatlanta.com404-320-0229 DJ
DJ Bally International
www.djbally.com(770) 803-9661 cake –other desserts
Meenakshi’s Cakes
vinomin12@gmail.com(404) 451-3854 accommodations
The Sheraton Hotel
www.shertonatlantahotel.com(404) 659-6500 honeymoon
The Palace Resorts-Mexico
www.palaceresorts.com





